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Frequently Asked Questions

Do I have to use Family Mediation?

Family Mediation is voluntary and nobody can be compelled to take part against his or her will. It is often very helpful in enabling people to reach their own negotiated settlements. The first appointment is always an introductory one so you can consider whether mediation is a way forward at this time. Joint appointments are never arranged without prior discussion and without including individual discussion with each person. If you have any concerns about taking part in mediation or are worried about meeting your partner or ex partner – perhaps due to violence, harassment or intimidation – please convey this to us before your first appointment. We will ensure that your concerns are addressed. Your safety is a priority.

Is Mediation Confidential?

Discussions in Family Mediation are confidential.  This confidentiality can only be breached if a crime is alleged against a child, the mediator considers someone to be at serious risk of harm or allegations are made of criminal/fraudulent activity.

Will I need a Solicitor?

The mediator can record your decisions and summarise them in a written Memorandum of Understanding.  This is not binding, but can form the basis of a legal agreement.  In mediation you do your own negotiating, removing the need for lengthy solicitor negotiation and legal action, but you each still need a solicitor to advise you and to make any joint proposals legally binding.  Mediators do not at any time give legal advice.

How much is mediation likely to cost?

Family Mediaiton can vary in cost depending on the number of sessions and complexity of the case. If you are eligible for Legal Aid and prior authority has been obtained from the Legal Services Commision, the cost of mediation may be met for you. Details are available on request.

Are you entitled to free mediation sessions?

Funding has been provided by the HSC Board that will enable couples who have not yet begun Court proceedings to avail of a free mediation service.

Where can I access family mediation?

Family Mediation sessions can be held at our offices at 7 University Street Belfast, or in a range of venues in all towns across Northern Ireland.  If you anticipate difficulty using mediation, e.g. because you have a disability please let us know so that we can make any necessary arrangements.

What next?

Call Family Mediation Northern Ireland on 028 90243265